About This Memory Space
This page was created for Thomas Gail Grabill's family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
Light a Candle Growing
Light a candle to honor Thomas Gail Grabill's memory. Each lighting keeps their memory burning bright for 23 hours.
Candle lit burns 23 hours. Come back and light it again after 23 hours to keep the memory burning.
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Memory Wall Growing
Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Thomas Gail Grabill. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
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Life & Legacy
Thomas Gail 'Tom' Grabill crafted a life of quiet impact, blending sharp intellect, unwavering kindness, and a playful wit that drew people close. His talent for affirming others left enduring marks on classrooms, boardrooms, and family hearths across Indiana.
Born in Muncie, Indiana, Tom grew up largely in Decatur, shaping a foundation of curiosity and community ties. His path wove through academic excellence and dedicated service in education, marked by a gentle demeanor and infectious humor. Even amid Parkinson's challenges, Tom's spirit shone through his attentiveness and commitment to those around him, embodying a faith-driven generosity that inspired all who crossed his path.
Tom's professional journey began as a celebrated chemistry educator at Michigan City Elston High School and Lowell High School, where he earned accolades like Teacher of the Year in 1967 for his engaging, insightful approach. Transitioning to administration, he excelled in school finance as Assistant Superintendent in Tri-Creek, East Allen County, and Lawrence Township districts. Post-retirement, he led Educational Services Company. A statewide influencer, he presided over the Indiana Association of School Business Officials in 1993-1994 and received the 2007 Lamplighter Award for transformative work in school business management.
Photos of Thomas's Life
Family & Loved Ones
Tom discovered profound joy in his 58-year partnership with Pat, sparked by shared carpool rides to graduate classes and a mutual passion for nurturing young minds. Their home buzzed with the energy of children Jeff and Jennifer, who each found devoted spouses—Chandra and Mark—expanding the circle to cherished grandchildren Megan and Jackson, whose very existence moved Tom to joyful tears. A skilled golfer who savored the course's rhythms, he infused family time with his signature listening ear and lighthearted charm, while his evolving Catholic faith fueled acts of service like aiding the needy.
Remembered by Friends & Family
Tributes from acquaintances paint Tom as a beacon of empathy and levity, with many recalling his knack for elevating everyday exchanges into moments of genuine connection and his steadfast support amid personal trials.
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