About This Memory Space
This page was created for Steven J. Barlow's family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
Light a Candle Growing
Light a candle to honor Steven J. Barlow's memory. Each lighting keeps their memory burning bright for 23 hours.
Candle lit burns 23 hours. Come back and light it again after 23 hours to keep the memory burning.
Limited to 5 lightings per hour to prevent abuse.
Memory Wall Growing
Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Steven J. Barlow. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
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Life & Legacy
Steven J. Barlow crafted a life rich with artistic flair, resilient spirit, and unwavering compassion, leaving behind a tapestry of creativity, quiet strength, and deep connections that continue to inspire those who knew him.
Born in Crawfordsville, Indiana, Steven nurtured a passion for art from his earliest days, finding joy in painting and drawing while cherishing afternoons with his paternal grandmother Della, whose influence shaped his capacity for profound bonds. A graduate of Emmerich Manual High School, he reveled in youthful adventures cruising with his brother Ron. His sense of duty led him to the Army, where peacetime service in Europe opened his eyes to diverse cultures, cuisines, and masterpieces that fueled his creative soul. Open-minded and quick with dry wit, Steven confronted life's challenges—including battles with addiction—with forgiveness and determination, often capturing his journey through journaling and crediting faith and loved ones for his path to sobriety. In his later years, he embraced a steadfast companionship with Irene, filling his days with tennis triumphs, pool table wizardry, and acts of kindness toward the overlooked.
Steven's military service in the Army during peacetime stationed him in Europe, where he embraced global exploration and cultural immersion. Beyond formal roles, his dedication shone in personal advocacy, tirelessly supporting others facing addiction through shared stories of recovery and redemption, while instilling artistic passion and empathy in those around him.
Photos of Life
Family & Loved Ones
Steven wove his world around enduring ties, from the lunch-hour rituals with grandmother Della that taught him trust, to road trips with brother Ron that sparked lifelong camaraderie. He built a lasting friendship with ex-wife Teresa after their 1988 marriage, co-parenting son Jonathan—who inherited his artistic drive and gentle forgiveness—with mutual respect. His devotion extended to sister Tina, brother Tony, sister Marla, parents Arnold and Barbara, and a circle of nieces and nephews, though he mourned the loss of Tony, Marla, his parents, and Della. In his final chapter, partner Irene stood by his side, sharing a quiet, purposeful rhythm.
Remembered by Friends & Family
Tributes from Steven's circle capture a man whose wry humor and boundless generosity left an indelible mark, with many recalling his unmatched pool shots, artistic gifts, and the grace he extended to everyone, especially those in need.