About This Memory Space
This page was created for Sharon Kay Pillow's family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
Light a Candle Growing
Light a candle to honor Sharon Kay Pillow's memory. Each lighting keeps their memory burning bright for 23 hours.
Candle lit burns 23 hours. Come back and light it again after 23 hours to keep the memory burning.
Limited to 5 lightings per hour to prevent abuse.
Memory Wall Growing
Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Sharon Kay Pillow. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
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Life & Legacy
Born in Indianapolis to Bob and Babs McCaffrey, Sharon grew up alongside her identical twin sister, Linda, sharing a bond that defined much of her vibrant life. Her passion for learning led her to Purdue University, where she not only earned degrees but also shone as a Silver Twin performer at bowl games, captivating audiences with her talent and energy. She continued her academic journey with advanced master's degrees in Special Education and Counseling, channeling her skills into a fulfilling path of service to others.
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Family & Loved Ones
Sharon Kay Pillow's legacy lives on through their family and loved ones:
- Sharon's family was the heart of her world. She is lovingly remembered by her son, Scott Pillow; her daughter, Vicki Arnold, and son-in-law, Kyle Arnold; her brother, Steve McCaffrey, and his wife, Melissa; her twin sister, Linda McCaffrey, and her partner, Mike Guidone; her cousin, Susan Howard-Brown, and husband, Rodger Brown, along with their children; and an extended circle including nephews John Duckworth (with wife Lauren and children), Ben Callahan; and nieces Laura Kracher (with husband Chad), Rachel McCaffrey (with husband Tyler Marshall), Sarah Pence (with husband Michael and children), and Christina Whiteside. Her influence extended to many relatives, friends, and colleagues who valued her kindness.
Remembered by Friends & Family
In the days and weeks after their passing, messages of love, support, and remembrance flowed in from friends, family, and colleagues. The themes that emerged were clear and consistent.
Friends and former bandmates from Purdue shared heartfelt remembrances of Sharon's time as a Silver Twin, praising her talent, grace, and the joy she brought to performances. Many expressed deep sadness, fond memories of her alongside twin Linda, and prayers for the family's comfort.
Memorial Gathering: To be announced
Memorial Service: Visitation
Location: Flanner Buchanan Funeral Centers
9700 Allisonville Road, Indianapolis, IN, 46250
Additional Information: Please contact the funeral home for additional information.
For more details, visit the original obituary