About This Memory Space
This page was created for Ralph Derrill Freund's family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
Light a Candle Growing
Light a candle to honor Ralph Derrill Freund's memory. Each lighting keeps their memory burning bright for 23 hours.
Candle lit burns 23 hours. Come back and light it again after 23 hours to keep the memory burning.
Limited to 5 lightings per hour to prevent abuse.
Memory Wall Growing
Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Ralph Derrill Freund. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
No memories posted yet. Be the first to share a story or memory.
Life & Legacy
Ralph Derrill Freund carved out a vibrant life in Indianapolis, blending grit, athletic passion, and family devotion into a story that resonated across generations. From his unconventional beginnings to his enduring community ties, Ralph's spirit embodied resilience and joy.
Born in the unconventional setting of the back room at Maywood Tavern in Indianapolis, Ralph grew up immersed in its lively atmosphere until his marriage in 1959. A graduate of Ben Davis High School, his basketball ambitions were derailed by a severe motorcycle crash that tested his survival instincts. Undeterred, he channeled his energy into motocross, later racing alongside his son and young cousins. Ralph's passions extended to water skiing, euchre games, fishing outings, and hosting friends around his pool, where his arm-wrestling prowess often stole the show. He managed the family tavern after his mother's passing in 2005, preserving a piece of local history.
For more than three decades, Ralph dedicated himself as a Union Insulator with Local #18, bringing skill and reliability to his trade. In 2005, he stepped into managing the Maywood Tavern, upholding its role as a neighborhood hub and honoring his family's legacy through steadfast stewardship.
Photos of Ralph's Life
Family & Loved Ones
Ralph poured his heart into nurturing bonds with his children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and the sprawling Freund clan, often gathering them for lively competitions or relaxed poolside afternoons. His longtime companion, Peg Alexander, shared in these cherished times, while he raised Tim Freund (with Rea Watson) and Terri Shedd (with John Southerland). Grandchildren Jackie, Kristen, Robyn, Danielle, and Brad, along with great-grandchildren Juniper and Wren, knew his playful competitiveness and unwavering support. Though he mourned the losses of daughter-in-law Kim, granddaughter Katie, stepdaughter Shelly, sister Ruth, and brother Bob, Ralph's home remained a haven of warmth and connection.
Remembered by Friends & Family
Tributes from acquaintances and kin alike capture Ralph as a magnetic figure whose competitive fire and easy camaraderie left an indelible mark on Indianapolis circles.
For those looking for service information