About This Memory Space
This page was created for Nancy A. Ahrbecker's family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
Light a Candle Growing
Light a candle to honor Nancy A. Ahrbecker's memory. Each lighting keeps their memory burning bright for 23 hours.
Candle lit burns 23 hours. Come back and light it again after 23 hours to keep the memory burning.
Limited to 5 lightings per hour to prevent abuse.
Memory Wall Growing
Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Nancy A. Ahrbecker. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
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Life & Legacy
Nancy A. Ahrbecker devoted her 88 years to nurturing her community in Carmel, Indiana, where her warmth, dedication, and spirited involvement left an enduring mark on neighbors and friends alike.
Born in Indianapolis to Leo 'Shumaker' Shumaker and Katherine 'Kitty' Weatherton Shumaker, Nancy grew up as the younger sister to William Shumaker. She pursued her education at Shortridge High School and DePauw University, laying the foundation for a life rich in service and connection. Throughout her years, Nancy embraced roles that highlighted her commitment to others, from shaping young minds in the classroom to fostering community ties in Carmel.
Nancy's professional path began in education, where she guided elementary students with patience and enthusiasm for several years. She later pivoted to real estate, applying her interpersonal skills to help families find homes and build roots in the community, all while actively participating in groups like Tuesdays with Friends and Newcomers of Carmel.
Family & Loved Ones
Nancy's world revolved around the joys of marriage, motherhood, and grandparenthood, beginning with her 1962 union to Frederick 'Rick' W. Ahrbecker. She poured her energy into raising son Bill Ahrbecker and his wife Lisa, while delighting in the lives of grandchildren Max, Luke, and Amy—creating a tapestry of family moments filled with her signature kindness and unwavering support.
Remembered by Friends & Family
Tributes from Nancy's circle capture a woman whose quiet strength and infectious enthusiasm wove her deeply into the fabric of Carmel life, with many noting her knack for turning acquaintances into lifelong friends.
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