About This Memory Space
This page was created for Eleanor Frances Carter, R.N.'s family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
Light a Candle Growing
Light a candle to honor Eleanor Frances Carter, R.N.'s memory. Each lighting keeps their memory burning bright for 23 hours.
Candle lit burns 23 hours. Come back and light it again after 23 hours to keep the memory burning.
Limited to 5 lightings per hour to prevent abuse.
Memory Wall Growing
Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Eleanor Frances Carter, R.N.. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
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Life & Legacy
Born in Columbia, South Carolina, and embraced through adoption by Vivian and Janice Collins, Eleanor's early years blossomed in North Charleston. A graduate of St. Andrews High School, she pursued her passion for science at the College of Charleston, earning a biology degree. There, she found her soulmate in Charles, marrying him in 1960 amid dreams of adventure ahead. Their journey wove through Charlottesville, Virginia, and Wheaton, Maryland, as Charles advanced his medical career and served in the Army. In 1971, they planted roots in Indianapolis, establishing their cherished Carmel home on Maple Crest Drive in 1974—a haven that remained their sanctuary for decades.
Family & Loved Ones
Eleanor Frances Carter, R.N.'s legacy lives on through their family and loved ones:
- The heart of Eleanor's world was her family and their lively home, always brimming with children, pets, and strays of every kind—especially her beloved large orange cats. She supported her children's pursuits as a steadfast Carmel Band Aid volunteer for the marching band and with the Garfield Cadets Drum and Bugle Corps. Survived by children Charles Benjamin Carter Jr., M.D. (Stephanie), Allyson Ashby Carter, Geoffrey Richard Carter, and Christopher Stuart Carter; and grandchildren Benjamin Bryant, Harrison Reese, McLean Stuart, and Lily Frances. She was preceded by her husband Charles in 2019.
Remembered by Friends & Family
In the days and weeks after their passing, messages of love, support, and remembrance flowed in from friends, family, and colleagues. The themes that emerged were clear and consistent.
Friends and neighbors shared heartfelt condolences, celebrating Eleanor's kindness, generosity, and dynamic spirit. Many recalled her as a wonderful, fun-loving neighborhood mom whose welcoming home and joyful energy, especially her love of dancing, left lasting impressions. Others praised her caring nature and the cherished memories she created with visitors.
Memorial Gathering: To be announced
Memorial Service: Memorial Service
Location: Flanner Buchanan Funeral Centers
1525 Mulberry Street, Zionsville, IN, 46077
Additional Information: Please contact the funeral home for additional information.
For more details, visit the original obituary