About This Memory Space
This page was created for Alexander Avery Michael Xander Wittbrod-Rouse's family and friends as a place to remember them, to share stories, and to keep their memory close in everyday life.
It is cared for and added to over time by the people who knew them, and everyone is invited to contribute, whether that is a story, a photo, a few words, or a simple note.
Many families visit places like this not just once, but again and again, especially on quiet days or meaningful anniversaries. This page is here for those moments, wherever you are.
A place to return to when you want to feel close again, to remember a moment, or to leave a few words for others to read. Over time, it grows through the voices of everyone who knew and loved them.
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Stories, photos, and memories shared by people who knew Alexander Avery Michael Xander Wittbrod-Rouse. This is the heart of this space—a collection that grows as more people contribute.
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Life & Legacy
Alexander Avery Michael 'Xander' Wittbrod-Rouse left an indelible mark as a vibrant young athlete, dedicated student, and compassionate soul whose enthusiasm for life inspired everyone around him.
From his early days in Indianapolis, Xander blossomed into a multifaceted teen with boundless energy and curiosity. A junior at Carmel High School, he immersed himself in engineering and automotive studies while excelling in sports. On the ice with the Carmel Icehounds hockey team, he showcased his skills as a gentle giant, balancing strength with kindness. He also competed as a thrower on the track team and had earlier tackled football. His commitments extended to Sheridan First Baptist Church, where he volunteered eagerly, forging bonds through faith and fellowship. Xander's world brimmed with fascinations like photography, aviation, railroads, and automobiles, fueling dreams of Purdue University for aeronautical engineering or motorsports. Weekends found him gaming on the computer, pedaling along the Monon Trail, or cherishing moments with loved ones.
Though his path was just beginning, Xander's pursuits in engineering and automotive pathways at Carmel High School hinted at a bright future in innovation. His athletic dedication on hockey, track, and football teams demonstrated leadership and perseverance, while church volunteering highlighted his commitment to community service. Aspirations to study aeronautical engineering or motorsports at Purdue reflected a drive to blend passion with purpose.
Family & Loved Ones
Xander's world revolved around the joyful chaos of a close-knit family, where he shared laughter and adventures with his parents Jenna Rouse of Carmel and Timothy (Maleana) Wittbrod of Sheridan, alongside siblings Grayson, Eli, Autumn, Scarlett, and Henry Wittbrod. Grandparents Margaret Rouse, Robert and Sally Wittbrod, William 'BK' Kelly, and Kevan Reedy were cherished figures in his life, offering wisdom and warmth. Now reunited in peace with unborn siblings, cousins, grandparents Ethel Kelly, Nancy Ramsey, and Marvin Rouse, plus uncle Tim Rouse, Xander's gentle spirit and ready smile made every family gathering unforgettable.
Remembered by Friends & Family
Tributes from classmates, teammates, and church friends capture Xander's essence as a kind-hearted powerhouse whose quiet strength and infectious zeal left a profound void yet enduring inspiration.
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